I'm 16 and still in high school. T is in her late 20s and is three years out of grad school...maybe we aren't that different?
I would actually be happier if my T didn't marry or have kids. Little me feels any big changes like that would distract her from her career, meaning her clients, meaning me. Big me knows the chance of that happening is likely, and Little me is just going to have to face this fact.
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