sorry just checked this thread. i did take the collage in. she didnt ask about it until near the end of the session. i didnt mind. i actually thought maybe she wouldnt ask at all. i did react but not as bad as the first time. and she didnt push it as much this time which helped. i know she really wants to discuss it and i want nothing to do with it. maybe ill somehow get through it. its still not done. is half done now thou. its so hard because of the subject it is about. thank you for the replies.