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Originally Posted by Sannah
Your being able to come out of this jousting position will change your life. You will learn how to get out of this position by working through this with your therapist. Learning how you fit in the world and interact with others is info more precious then gold.
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I know you are right. But...god. It hurts. It HURTS. And also, there has to be some point where I stand up for me. There has to be some point where enough is enough. I think T telling me to not come to her for emotional support is that point for me. I think I found out that I do in fact have a limit, despite all my abandonment issues, despite the fact that I will hold onto people far longer than what is healthy for me, despite my fear of change. Even in light of all of that, I DO have a limit.
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She left pieces of her life behind her everywhere she went.
"It's easier to feel the sunlight without them," she said.
~Brian Andreas