Zing, what an awesome response!

Thank you for that!! It is sad. But it's right that I do this - for ME. I'm sad I never had the "Daddy" I wanted -- and DESERVED. And I'm sad for him that he never got to know a pretty neat son (me). And you're right. Showing love shouldn't have to be instigated by a "Hallmark Holiday." it SHOULD be 365 days a year.
Again, thanks for that.