I am always in fear of being around men, also. I just have to keep telling myself they're not gonna hurt me.
You need to do a lot of challenging your thinking. I think some cognitive therapy would do you a lot of good in this area. I know I benefited from that because my thinking was so warped. Challenging your thinking can do wonders.
I hope this helps some.
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