I think this is not just something that men do. I mean you see/hear about it more from men, but women are also guilty.

A lot of people don't realize that if you have sex with your partner while they're sleeping it's rape. Then there are some people that like to wake up to that, too.

I'm very ashamed to say it, but once I had thought about this...that my bf would like to wake up to me having sex with him...but I never did it. I had thought about it, yes, but then I thought, "wait a minute-that's rape." Why is it rape? Because he couldn't say yes or no in his sleep.

I'm glad I never went through with what I was thinking...I mean it's an exciting thing to wake up to, but the reality of what it is isn't.