Can I please add something else that crossed my mine taken from other posts of yours on the other forums. I gather from those posts that you said you were in the process of a divorce, plus having some behavior problems with your daughter, maybe being that you are going through such a hard and emotional time in your life right now it may not be a good idea to get too involved quite yet with this guy plus let's face it he's married! You've been through a lot and you owe yourself some time to give your "heart" a rest, your nerves, and your strength. Involvment with a new guy may even be hard for your little girl to deal with too right now with all that has been going on, it sounds like you both need time now of some peace and time to heal, pulling out of the wreckage and drawing strength to begin a new life, "mylife" Take time, things will all begin to fall into place and you'll feel so much more balanced and so will your little girl, divorce can be traumatic times for all involved. Starting another relationship so soon shortly after one has just failed may just not be a good idea quite yet, but that's my opinion and I am sorry I know you probably did not want to hear it, I took it upon myself because I hate to sit back and watch people getting hurt if I know there was something I could have said or done to help prevent someone from making a mistake knowing it could bring unecessary pain and suffering to them.
I apologize if this was out of line, it is just that I care about our members here and what happens to them
Sometimes you can't be so trusting to these guys . . .
Don't get me wrong there are still a lot of great guys out there, but give it a little time and you'll see what I mean.
*hugs and good wishes to you*

"darkeyes"