Hi Lex,

Yes, I do agree that a female can be guilty of this act we call rape just as any man can..... but in most cases an adult person (g/f or wife) cannot precede with the actual sex act without the man acknowledgement, for he needs to be ready (erected) for his wife / girlfriend to be with him sexually and by this time he would be awake....
Were as a man can get him self all stirred and ready to enter the female before she even has time to wake up from her slumber - to say yes or no.

BTW - I love to be waken to the soft gentle kisses and touch of my husband, but a good husband should never precede to be intimate (the actual sex act) with his wife until she is ready and willing.

((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

LoVe,
Rhapsody -