Hi Echoes - I just sent you a private thank you for your help with the links before. My new T is actually a Pdoc. I feel like if they are well trained and motivated, as well as intelligent, it isn't that important either. However, all those 3 things are essential. I just had 4 choices where I live and only two were men so I went with the one I heard another psych say he heard good things about. So far so good. Fingers crossed....