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Originally Posted by granite1
i wonder if anyone else ever feels unimportant to there T's.i do,i don't talk much if at all.i mostly sit there.i never or hardly ever share anything about me or what is going on with me or my past.i would never tell her about my SI.most times i just sit there and so does she.i cant help but know she must be board and that is why she never offers make up sessions for all these Mondays that she isn't there.i cant blame her.after almost 2 years she still knows nothing about me at all or at least the smallest amount of stuff.she must have so many more clients that allow her to help and are so much more interesting and engaging for her and then i come in and just sit.i have nothing to offer her .nothing to even make her the slightest bit interested in helping me at all.just me a big huge bag full of boring nothingness  |
Hey granite hun,
I don't think your Therapist finds you boring. Like all therapists she knows that clients open up at different rates and that they can communicte differently. It definately doesn't sounds like there is nothing going on for you, it sounds like theres a lot going on inside but your are struggling so much to share it. What is the fear of sharing with her?
Have you thought of other ways of communicating with her?
If your therapist thought that you were not worth helping she would not have stayed with you for almost 2 years, I think she knows that you are struggling and wants to help but perhaps is afraid to push you that little bit.
*huge huggles