I'd like to think it's not necessary to "blame" anyone here, but if it is then I will take it. I am an adult, albeit a highly emotional one going through a very stressful time, so I ought to be able to stop myself from calling someone I don't actually want to call. I don't blame T for that.

As far as finding a new T, I did talk to my case manager about it but unfortunately she left for a 2.5 week vacation the day after I met with her. Nothing can really happen as far as finding a new T without my CM being involved and signing off on it, so it has to wait until after she gets back.