Excellent point, Dizgirl.

And, in fact, all relationships, not just the theraputic one, have the potential to cause difficult emotions...even unrequited love. Would you have everyone you encounter give you a disclaimer first? "Warning, your feelings for me may not be returned and may cause you pain."

I'm not trying to make light of the emotional pain you felt...just pointing out that the feelings, whatever they may be, are not limited to therapy, and not limited to romantic feelings. It's something that each person must learn to deal with.