This is about my relationship with my sister and am not sure if this is where to post. So I will try here.
I am so confused and not sure how to handle this. I love my sister but she has hurt me so deeply and I am having a difficult time trusting her. We are both adults. She is older and for the past year has turned away from the entire family for as far a I know no reason at all. During the past year I finally came to terms with it and decided when she is ready she will call. Well a few months ago she did and apoligized and said she wanted to get together and hoped I would be open to it. I responded and said yes, but I was honest in that I told her I was scared because I thought she would run away and it hurts. I did not hear from her fo quite some time. Then I received a call and we talked briefly and she said she wanted to get together and she was glad I could forgive her. I said yes I would like to get together thinking that maybe we could reconcile. She said she would call back during the week and we would set something up. Now it has been a few weeks and I have heard nothing! I am at the point where I can't trust her. I love her and she is important but how many times do I put myself in the same place I am now. It hurts. I do know it is her and she needs to solve her problems, but do I continue putting myself in a place to be rejected and feel the hurt and sadness. Do I put my foot down and say no more? I am feeling so confused and sad and I am tired of feeling this way. Does anyone have any feedback? I am willing to listen.