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Old Jun 17, 2011, 10:10 PM
silverbells silverbells is offline
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Originally Posted by racee View Post
if it was one thing i wish i was told when i was younger it would be that ... no one matters in school. all the people are so insignificant compared to the whole world. they are nothing! what they say or do means nothing. i was tormented since the 2nd grade all the way till i graduated minus the years i did online school since i had so many abscences. Hang in there somehow cause it only gets better! oh how i wish someone would have said those words to me. all those years of taking what the kids had to say to heart cause i thought that's all that mattered. i just hope i can instill more self confidence in my son.

You are SO right Racee - if we can only hang on long enough to discover it. I realize it every day - what people think of me has absolutely (or CAN have absolutely) no significance over my life and what I achieve/experience. We have ABSOLUTELY no control over what people conclude about us - and trying to control their conclusions is a very human vortex and SUCH a waste of one's life energy!