I am not sure what you want your therapist to do. The relationship goes two ways. As my therapist has said "I cannot read your mind". If you have been in therapy for two years and still cannot communicate openly with your therapist, perhaps you need to seek out another one. To me it seems like a major waste of time and money. Your life is far too valuable than to sit session after session and feel the way you do. You need to take conrrol of the situation. And as someone else has stated we are not there to amuse and entertain our therapists.