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Originally Posted by cmac13
I am not sure what you want your therapist to do. The relationship goes two ways. As my therapist has said "I cannot read your mind". If you have been in therapy for two years and still cannot communicate openly with your therapist, perhaps you need to seek out another one. To me it seems like a major waste of time and money. Your life is far too valuable than to sit session after session and feel the way you do. You need to take conrrol of the situation. And as someone else has stated we are not there to amuse and entertain our therapists.
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hi cmac13
in a perfect world my T would just say i am on vacation this day would you like a makeup session.she use to ask me this and then just stoped for some reason.my guess is that i was always to scared to answer her or accept a makeup session so she just stoped asking.
one of the major reasons i am in T is my unwillingness and inability to talk and interact with others.i dont think finding a new T would help this. i guess at some point i just need to decide i am just going to talk.IDK.i didnt mean to give the impression that she is a bad T and i need to find a new one i am sure she does the best she can with what i give her to work with.this is more my point i guess.