Whether it is the minority or majority of an opinion, I completely agree with the words of DocClyde. I had the same problems as the OP but it did certainly help a lot to work on myself first. This can be done in different ways and I like the examples as already mentioned. It surely worked for me, although I will be a lifelong "work in process"
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Originally Posted by DocClyde
My best advice is work on yourself, make yourself feel better, believe in yourself first, that you are important and that people should think of you highly.
I know it sounds stupid, but it does work--think of yourself (as I am sure you all are), as intelligent, good, caring gentlemen...work with your life--keep doing the best you can, and it may come along.
 Hope that helps |