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pegasus said:
I've had 4 years of therapy so far...

It is a constant learning process.

The FEELING part of me- comes from the CHILDs point of view. It is not wrong what the child-part feels, but I have to stop and think and ask myself,
Is that true now?
And try and work out if it is a "here and now feeling" or is it "old stuff, from the past"

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> YES!!! that's precisely the kind of thing we wondered. stopping and thinking and asking "is that true now?"

awesome peg....thank you for that!