Those are very good thoughts, Anderson. I was scaring myself for changing my room around like this. Never have done this before. I have been experiencing extreme stress recently and still going through it, so perhaps this change is helping me and nothing to be frightened of.
It's also interesting that your change your room around frequently. I felt better hearing that. Thank you for sharing this. I have a volunteer visitor come to visit with me once a month and every time she comes here, she makes fun of me because I have changed my rooms around (I have a very small apartment). Now, I try to make a joke out of it to ease my discomfort over her judgments. So, when we sit down, I say "well Ann, can you guess what I changed?" then I start to laugh.
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Originally Posted by anderson
June bug,
all of our parts need time to feel wanted and safe.
were you safe in that room?
In truth those with in me change our rooms at least once a month. we even leave bubble wrap on the floor to let the littles make it pop.
The question is more of the fact are you comfortable in that room? are you safe? By given yourself a room that give you good memiors of the past then in truth , it seems like you are given a part of yourself a time and space to heal and grow in the ooutside world.
I/we truely hope that is the case that you are given yourself the ability to relaxe and just be.  |