I don't quite know what to say. I think it's obvious that what my T is doing isn't working for me, and what she is doing is misusing DBT by focusing too much on change and not enough on acceptance. I am not the only one who has lost their balance in this relationship.

Tay, only T and I know how much I call her. Ultimately, though, I have to agree with your statement because I don't WANT to call her at all, so any call is too many calls. I just wonder, is there anyone out there, anyone at all, who can relate to calling T when you don't WANT to call T? If I could stop calling her I would. I really would. I wish I could.