i know its easier said than done, but please try not to get caught up in all the labelling. i was originally diagnosed with ptsd and four years later a pdoc diagnosed me with bpd. does that mean the first diagnosis was incorrect? or the second? or both? who knows. now its something totally different. the best advice i can give you is to focus less on what it is they think you have and more on whether or not your treatment is working for you. if you are on meds, do they make you feel better or worse? is talk therapy helping or hurting? i know its reassuring to know what the exact problem is, but i dont think its quite an exact science. we change over time and therefor are problems may change with us. experiences change us, making us better or worse. the most important thing is to get better. wishing you best of luck and sending big hugs your way.