It does get uncomfortable. My problem is I let the wrong people get too close. I am re-evaluating my choices and relationships in therapy. I just today sent a "Dear John" email to a toxic friend. Kinda sad.
I do have a few close, healthy friendships, and I'm focusing on those. I have found that one thing that helps me make friends is being transparent (not overly) but just being vulnerable about my own shortcomings and weaknesses. It makes other people feel more confortable around me, cause they can see I'm human, like them.
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"Just living is not enough," said the butterfly, "one must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower."
— Hans Christian Andersen
God chose the weak, the lowly and despised ... his power is greatest when we are weak.
— The Bible
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