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Originally Posted by lokeluche
She sounds very insecure to me.
All the flags are there :
. girls putting other girls down all the time..huge flag.
. If she knows she looks good she does not need to remind it to herself about a million time every day.
. laughing inappropriately to draw attention to herself.
. overtly flaunting herself when there is no need to. Nothing put others off like posers who think they are soo better than anybody else. I have known people like that : words words words..prove it with action !
. attention seeker..other men..no boundaries..no awareness of what is appropriate or not : she is selling herself short actually !
. showing disrespect towards you. somebody who is confident does not seek attention from other men and then flaunts it to your face.
.nobody is perfect and somebody a bit more humble would be actually more attractive.
well does she have any girlfriends ?
I do not know her, her hobbies or anything..but by this resume..
she would be a major turn off to most guys actually. I mean serious and OK ones.
My point of view..based on what you wrote.
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First of all, thank you very much for taking the time to read my post and responding! Secondly, thanks for your honest opinion.<br />
To answer your questions:
- Girlfriends: She doesn't have any close girlfriends, though she does have about 5 friends she's had since childhood, so once in a blue moon, they will all go out together. She has, at one point or another, shared some negative views about every single one of them, and most of them are single girls without boyfriends (and she always badmouths her cousins behind their backs as well, all of which are female). About her friends, she will always say something like "they are jealous of me" and are "so weird." About cousins, she always says things like, "Oh my God, they are SUCH showoffs!"...but then I see her do some of those same showoffy things at times as well.
- Hobbies: She has a newfound hobby (about a year old), which has to do with collecting antique tableware. Lately, she found a way to turn it into a business, and in front of public, will almost ALWAYS voluntarily start talking about her business regardless of who the audience is.
So seeing how she is so insecure, honestly, what would be the best action for me take? Is this insecurity something that will always cause problems in our marriage in the future, or is it something I should get myself used to? I'm very confused at this point of the relationship.
