((((((((((( WH )))))))))))))))

You are very brave to post this. Can you talk to someone from the Domestic Abuse program there and see if you can get an order which makes the roomated move or which will force her into therapy. If she is a threat to herself and/or others, she can be put in a hospital for treatment whether she wants to go or not.

Get a restraining order which will keep the boyfriend from coming near you, even in your home. If the roomate wants to see him, the can meet somewhere else. You don't need to be afraid in your own home.

I know you don't want anyone to worry, but look at it this way. You are blessed with friends and a T that care about you. That is a true blessing.

I can't think of anything else at the moment but I hope things get better for you and that you can stay strong.

Hugs,

Jan