which is why we think your ability to state why you needed to post---validation and being heard-----is awesome! that you knew your words could be offensive to some and made sure to state why you posted.
a great job of expressing your feelings and of following up with a showing of your heart.
we're sorry that whatever you lived through brings up these feelings for you

but we're very glad you've been able to share your words here.
((Rhapsody))