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Originally Posted by poetgirl76
my H just threatened me with divorce unless I grow up. he says that is the only problem that I have.....no mental problems. just that I don't want to grow up!
sad thing is, he may be right......one of my hugest problems is that I don't like having all this responsibility.....I can't seem to handle it......
So, I guess I am looking at a divorce and disaster......the end of life as I know it......dear God in heaven. what do I do now?! I should decide to grow up, shouldn't I.......
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Oh no, Poetgirl, you just have one thing land on you after another. When did you last talk to your therapist? And when do you see her again? It seems like you should be able to have an emergency session with her. Can you call her?
Your situation has nothing to do with 'growing up'. What the heck does that mean anyways? You are working very hard to heal and it's not as easy as just 'deciding' to heal. Please be gentle with yourself. This is not your fault.