I'm the eldest only son, a twin sister, and 2 others. Father died when I was 11. My only Uncle had the operation, and became my 2nd Aunt! That makes me the only 'surviving' male of that generation in our family.
I never understood about playing with cars etc., and I seem to think much more like a lady-sensitive, intuitive, feeling etc. I find it difficult to relate to men, as apposed to women. I almost have to conciously think differently.
I did however have a partner for a long time, and like the idea of relations with women, but it is like a mirror image - I feel the women's emotions as much as mine,and it gets confusing at times?
Cheers