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Old Jun 19, 2011, 08:34 AM
Protoform Protoform is offline
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Originally Posted by ECHOES View Post
Delusional. The therapist does not control your reactions. Your feelings about intimacy are yours alone. This would be comparable to blaming the victim of abuse for eliciting the abuse response in the abuser. Totally incorrect.
Then I have free license to be mean and cruel to everyone. If they get hurt it's their fault because they, not me, have absolute control over their emotions and I have no power to elicit anything in them.