A good point. If the same things are happening over and over, look for a common denominator in all of these men. And relationships take work. Ask yourself, are you engaging in sex with these guys too soon? And sometimes we get involved with people that we have nothing in common with. Next guy, ask questions, what are your interests, etc. Don't get heavily involved with someone just because your lonely. Take an inventory of yourself, something has to be changed within yourself, then maybe you won't set yourself up for heartache. Hope this helps.