I ended up going to the ER again on thurs night and, as I said, was pretty sick Fri and Sat, so I didn't get back here to update you guys, and then I guess I thought I had done it. Sorry for the confusion. I mean, I know this thing is confusing enough without me leaving out big chunks. It's also complicated by me having more than one active thread going. Sorry.

I had to go back and read what I had posted and then read my texts and figure out where I left off. So, yes, I asked her not to call me any more. And then when I was in the ER I am ashamed to say I called her for coaching. Only she didn't answer, but then she called me the next morning and left a message, which I posted the text of in my other thread. My text above was in reply to that.