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Lexicon78 said:
I've been in the same kind of group therapy as you are experiencing. IMO, it isn't helpful for anyone at all. I had to drop out because it was too much for me.

Maybe confronting the T's there may help and tell them your concerns in front of the group. It sounds to me like that is the way it is done, nothing behind closed doors and everything in the group. Tell them you don't believe that they care or that they would protect you against any kind of attack.

Let it be known how this group therapy is affecting you and that you feel very unsafe.

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I did. I let the group and the moderators know that I felt cast as the aggressor and that I didn't feel supported. Right after I said this, two members blamed me for the counselors' decision to ask Rebbeca to leave. One used the term "ambush" and the other used the word "spotlighting." So, I've decided to leave the group.