google "meetup". it's a social network of clubs/groups of just about any activity you can think of. Book clubs, hiking, biking, cooking, politics, stamp collecting or just socializing... you name it, I'd bet there is a group near you. Or you can even start your own. Another idea is to take a class at your local community college. I am on the introverted side so I know how you feel. It is hard for me to initiate going out and meeting people. I hate the initial period of small take and getting a friendship off the ground. I usually have a few close, meaningful friendships that took me a while to cultivate. Having a lot of acquaintances often seems pointless to me. But it is just like dating. The more people you come in contact with, the more chances you have to make friends. If you target groups of people who have the same interests as you, it will motivate you and you automatically have something in common to talk about. Once you do, you will find it becomes easier. Many, many people are just like you out there. Don't feel you are weird because you feel this way. Good luck.