i'm 23 and single now. so it makes me sick when i hear about guys who are with girls like that...idk dude. i've been dumped bc of my mental problems (borderline/bipolar) but i've never done stuff like that. so it just makes me wonder if being vain/mean/pretentious is better than being sensitive/passionate/genuine (i.e. ME).

but goodluck in whatever you decide. in the words of Sylvia plath "if you love her, you will love somebody else someday"