Oh No, Korin, you said nothing to cause me to feel uncomfortable ((( hugs if okay))). Please don't feel this way, okay? Your posts are very important to me. It's soo hard with the black and white word to hear the changes in tone and meaning. I'm soo glad you responded to give me an opportunity to explain to you that you did nothing to cause me to feel anyway. I am the only one responsible for how I allow myself to feel.
I did make an attempt to take down the shadowbox this morning but I wasn't able to, so leaving it up for the time being and accepting it is there for a reason and hoping someday soon I will learn it's meaning.
Thank you Korin for all your helpful suggestions, I really appreciate and value what you have to say
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Originally Posted by Korin
I'm sorry the change wasn't as positive as I had assumed. Sorry about that.
I worked for a long time to ignore mine too but, like you, they just persisted until I came to accept them for what they are - a part of me. Working together we take care of each other.
As uncomfortable as it may be, hopefully the changes are helping a part of you to face something and heal.
Perhaps asking a few questions might help. You could ask why that part of you made the changes to the room. And you could ask yourself or some other part why it makes you feel so uncomfortable. Maybe there is something to be learned here.
I still think some part of you is trying to help either you or another part to face up to something in an effort to promote more healing.
Sorry again for anything I said that may have made you feel even more uncomfortable.  |