swimjim - if you want to communicate by email with StrongerMan - instead of putting your email here...you can go to your profile and click 'edit options' - there's a box there that gives the option of receiving emails from other members. Just so you know others would be able to see your email if you respond back. Or you can just PM any member or PM your email address, if you wish the more private approach.

Sorry this situation is still tugging at your heart strings. I'm afraid you'll just end up in the same situation if you get back in again. I hope she takes this as a learning experience, not to give ultimatums unless you're prepared for the opposite answer. Good luck.