Proto, I've only skimmed some of your posts, so please excuse me if I don't know all that's going on.
Regardless of what may or may not have happened, who may or may not be at fault, you are in pain, and you are entitled to your feelings. If you are not in therapy now, I recommend seeing someone else and trusting that the experience you had with your former therapist will not necessarily be like the rest.
Also, if you do truly believe your therapist harmed you, I recommend filing a complaint with the licensing board and/or seeing an attorney to pursue malpractice against her. And even if you do not win a suit or the licensing board dismisses your complaint, it doesn't mean that what you feel is wrong or that your therapist could not have done a better job.
Good luck, Proto.
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Originally Posted by Protoform
Yes, I think that's what happened. Thank you.
That might have been it. In other words, my therapist was incompetent for failing to find the correct distance and language.
Yes, exactly. It was the T's fault for not doing things right. And the sad part is that to this day I still get treated like I am delusional 
You get it. Most people just say I am delusional for thinking that the therapist was incompetent. It's almost like they think that I think that the the therapist "magically" made me feel attracted to her. NO, that's not what I think. The problem is that she did not gauge her approach according to my needs and ended up triggering a strong painful response on my part. She was the trigger, not the agent actually making me feel attracted to her.
Correct. Thank you. |