hey addcolin,

I think you shouldn't worry about what men or women should be like, and focus on who you feel like you are, on the inside, because it's your own sense of gender identity that counts, not your role in society or what you like to do.

I transitioned to female a while ago. The way I looked at it was, I didn't transition to become a woman - I transitioned in order to be myself. It just so happened that being myself came much more naturally to me in a female body.

Feel free to send me a PM, I'll be happy to keep in touch with you.
Good luck on your journey!