Wow, quite the dilemma, I think. Although I think anyone would love to be in your shoes right now, I bet it is quite confusing and all that. You may or may not be gay. I mean yeah, to the average person they would say yes, but there are some things to ask yourself. Would you ever consider having sex with a guy? I think that's where the truth lies.

I went out with a butch lesbian who was extremely into women and still is, but she was still able to say which guys were hot or not. She would never sleep with a guy, though.

Me, I'm bi, so I'm def into both. And then there's the possibility that you are bi and that you just thought you were a lesbian. I mean I was bi when I hooked up with the butch and when we were together I decided that I would just be totally lesbian from there on out...it didn't work out that way...I'm back to being bi again.

but I never do deny the fact that I love women or that I want a woman.