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My husband is fully aware of my feelings and supports me much of the time but also feels that I am overreacting at this point. He cannot handle seeing the signs of a panic attack because of something so "stupid".

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He better start listening...lol. I think that I can relate. I worked for my father for years before I realized that I was being taken advantage of. From what I understand is that you are caught up in the middle of it. I think that you need to just tell your husband that you can't do it any more. If that might be too much then just tell him that you want to pursue something else.
Good luck my friend and I wish you the best.