Not like you now??? You are so wrong...you are just thinking about the outside. Besides I wouldn't want someone that was only concerned witrh the outside anyway. They would be pretty shallow to me!!!!!!! Besides we all age and what was beauty before is not later on. Things change
Think about the positive things about you...like your eyes....do you like them...can you wear makeup to make them stand out?
Makeup does wonders and can make you feel better
What about your hair..Can you color it a different color or get it cut?
Take time to list just the positive things about you...the compliments you received in the past. What colors look good then go shopping for a couple new tops...Money tight then hit the thrift stores. I have found great name brands-new in thrift stores
Make a plan for improvement if it make you feel better. Sometimes a plan gives up hope...a goal. New clothes, makeup can always help but remember its inside you...that feeling! Sometimes we can change the outside but still feel bad....its about attitude too.......and you know when you watch t.v. that those women are not real...They are totally made up with jewelry and clothes, a makeup person and someone there to do their hair...now catch them at their house at 6:00a.m... you will find they look just like you.....
Been there ...just like you feel now.........Why do all women feel under such pressure. Its a shame its the media for one thing....
Hope you feel better
Hugs;
Dee
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"And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper
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