(((((((((((((jan)))))))))))))))

i'm so sorry. i'm sorry that you've been hurt.

oh, have i been there, and honey i know you'll pick yourself up by the bootstraps and go on. you're amazing that way.

however, please remember to take time while you're feeling this hurt to comfort yourself and know that YOU didn't deserve it. we can't control others, but they still seem to touch us in one way or another, and i'm sorry.

comfort yourself right now, and allow us to. you are truly one of the most giving, beautiful people i've met.

kd