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I wish that I could put my arms through the screen and give you a big hug too. And that I could make things better for you. It is not your fault that your husband abuses you and that things are bad at work, but that doesn't mean that you are powerless to change things. From where you are it might not look like change is possible, but you should not stay around and be abused, and you also don't have to put up with so much garbage at work. You do work harder than is required of you, and as much as I know that you are driven to be perfect, you're going to burn out if you keep this up, and that doesn't help you or your employer.

Why haven't you seen your T in 3 weeks?

Please take Alex and go to a shelter, or ask your T to help you find some other resources to get you out of the situation you are in. There are people who will help you if you let them.

You know we love you always.

xoxoxooxoxox