Thanks...
I finally got the nerve up to talk to her. and i showed her a text to start off the convo which said "u r yummy" from his number..
In mid beginning she burst out laughing and i stopped and looked at her...
she just handed me the phone back and said he meant to send it to her.. I tried to say more.. but she only laughed more...
I know she may of been laughing to hide some of her actual feelings.. but.. it still put me off. and I felt hurt.. even more.. I almost broke down and cried because the thought was "i know i thought she didn't love me.. but now shes got to show it to my face?!"
and i didn't want to open up more only to be laughed at, and for it to be laughed off...

anyways, thanks everyone for the replies. i wanted to come back and give everyone an update after today.