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Originally Posted by Direction
I'm thinking you wait until he ends his current relationship and has time to process the breakup before dating this person...as you mentioned you don't want to be considered cheating and you probably don't want to be a rebound.
If he is giving mixed signals, just make it clear that since he is in a relationship you have no desire to date him...and even then I'm not sure I would suggest dating him if he is unable to stop his flirting with you while he is dating someone else...you may end up being that person he is dating and he flirting with another girl...
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I know, and that's why I'm not quick to jump into anything right away. I understand the whole "if he flirts in a relationship with her it doesn't mean he wouldn't do it to you" thing. I, by nature am very timid and quiet and don't have a whole lot of practice coming right now and saying whatever is on my mind. I worry too much about losing friends and have little to no experience in relationships (all of mine have been long-distance or online so this is way more intense) so I'm scared of saying something wrong and then suddenly everything I've been enjoying is gone.
I'm going to be seeing him again this weekend.. How do I go about correcting all of this..?
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