good question, i wonder the same thing. im a sadomasochist, but also prefer the Dominate role, i do switch a bit though. not surw why i prefer the Dom side, i have a few guesses, but no actual legit reason lol, maybe because ive been taught, more like forced into, being on my own, independent, not relying on others in my child hood, so i just have a natrual assertive, probably more aggressive personality than other women my age. when i come to america, all i new was my dad, so idepended on myself a lot. but there are times where i wld rather prefer the man to control the lovemaking, sometimes it gets old to always be in charge lol... idk really how to explain it, but that is a fetish i have, i also enjoy pain a abit too, not necessarily submit, but sometimes the pain gives me a sense of control, really the masochist has more control then the sadist, because the masochist can stop the sadist from giving the pain anytime he or she want to.

ya, i am also interested in others opinions on this topic. thanks for making it.

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