Welcome to the Community, SpringingTiger. Have you had a psychological assessment performed by a psychologist or other authorized professional? If so, has your therapist seen it?

Since a good connection with the therapist is critical to achieving a good result, you probably should ask the therapist for a clarification about what she meant by her comment.

http://psychcentral.com/lib/2009/get...therapy/all/1/
http://www.wellsphere.com/mental-hea...therapy/782440
http://psychcentral.com/psychotherapy/