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Old Jun 23, 2011, 02:13 AM
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Oh--you can go ahead and read but, we all know this is the "classic" post/thread on being upset about getting NO response from an email.
oh-dread'.

I sent my T an email. No response. My heart hurts but, I'll deal. My therapist usually responds the same day...Truly, I'm use to that. And I rarely if ever email these days. Only when something is really, really important to me. I go weeks without emailing...I've taught myself to do that...even when all it did was hurt me emotionally not too. I knew thats whats what was best but, I at least need to know that she read it...really. Thats really the whole point.. that it was read... maybe she just decided on her own that she was going to no longer respond to my emails... thats great and everything but, I think I have a right to know that... you shouldn't be all...nonchalant and distant about it...If your not going to respond, fine... but, I think it takes two seconds to reply with a " hey, jazzy, read...the email. will talk about this in session." I don't know, who knows? maybe, she's just taking her time... its only been one day, its just so odd for her to even wait One whole day if I send something....if I hadn't been seeing her for over a year I wouldn't think anything of it, but, I've worked with her entirely too long. for a year. I even know her work days.. monday, tuesday, and wednesday..every other day she's out of the office. so I know she takes care of business, which would include emails..monday, tuesday, and wednesday. I sent the email tuesday. guess what today is ...drum roll..... thursday!! get my point? lol.
Usually, if I send something monday, I'm guaranteed a response by tuesday. I send something tuesday, guaranteed a response wednesday. get it?

I spent all day distracting my mind from it... not wanting to look...
and I finally log on and see nothing. bummed.

my point is.... sometimes people are just too vunerable at times/ stupid, small things make them crazy
cus, there are so much more BIG important things effecting everything else... small things don't make a huge
difference until your REALLY, DEEPLY hurting...then its like, something as small as a particle of sand ( like an email),
feels like a mountain, a sandcastle..

when it hurts... haha, yeah I'm bummed..I know this
cus' I'm getting all poetic now. omg! :/
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Last edited by jazzy123456; Jun 23, 2011 at 04:45 AM.