how do you get close enough with a T to tell them about your cutting? i mean, does a connection with a T just happen, or do you just 'know' or what? i feel like i seriously struggle with being open and honest with my T and i dont know if thats me or part of the process or what. its been over a year that ive been seeing her (on and off)...so should i just move on or really try to make this work? i want to talk to someone about my SI.