Lot has happened over the past 2 weeks. AJ's car broke down so his gf drove him to work, because it was on her way to work. Her schedule is different than AJ's as she goes to work later than AJ which means AJ got to work late.... ANYWAY, yesterday AJ got a new "used" car .. "he got a nice car, a BMW, used with 10,000 miles. So transportation solved...

ANYWAY, I told his g/f AJ is on 3 month probation and it is important he gets to work on time.. I thought she "understood".......

WELL, last night they celebrated at home over the new car... He drove his gf's friend home and guess got to bed around 3am... SO I usually call him to make sure he is up each morning.. I knew he was over tired but he still had to go to work.. Right???? I ended up knocking on his @ 8:45 and when he opened the door his gf was laying there "smiling"...That irked me. AJ can't afford to lose this job and getting to work on time is very imnportant.... Not sure why she didn't push AJ out of bed .......

Other than this morning, I "think/thought" she was a great person for AJ. She really is nice...Very good for AJ.. She makes tons of money.. She even gave AJ $600 sunglasses last night......She is organized and I can say tons of great things about her. BUT this morning, with at stupid smile on her face, laying in bed, struck a bad note for me... It was the smile....Guess if AJ's loses his job she will support him..??? Am I being *****y... AJ's work hours are 9 to 5.... And it was 8:45 when I knocked on his door... and it is a half hour drive to work....I would of thought she would have pushed him out of bed not lay there with him till 9am>>

Maybe I am ranting.. I dunno... Just irked...This is AJ's first "programming" job...His first "real" job and he is on 3 months probation... End of July is his 3 month review...Maybe I am over reacting...? To be honest, I don't want to be the one to "ring" him each morning to wake up.. I think she should do it or he get up on his own ... Just don't like seeing him going to work late... and don't like seeing a gf flashing a smile, laying in bed, knowing AJ is late for work...

Boy that was a mouthful....... Maybe I worry too much......His life.. His choices...His job... mama has to chill and let it go and not worry.. Just this being his first real job... shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh mama.. go back to bed..