June_Bug, I so agree with you. Having dealt with this a long time, working on coping tools is the best I can do today. Others are trying so hard to get it but they don't. Writing about it and being on forums like this has helped me the most. There are meds for depression and anxiety and they help make life a little easier to cope with but there are no meds for DID. I don't take any meds these days and feel the need to be strong and take care of myself.